Relationships can have their fair share of conflicts and issues in any normal situation. Let’s face it, even the so called healthy relationships have had their fair share of ups and down. And with long distance relationships, the chances that you may sometime fall out with your significant other cannot be ruled out. Without mincing words, distance can cause a huge gulf between two inseparable love birds. Little wonder the cliché “out of sight is out of mind”
Of course, there are pros and cons attached to long distance relationships. First of all, a long distance relationship can actually help the relationship between you and your man grow stronger each day, as you constantly miss each other and try to do things that would bridge the gap between you.
However, the not-so-appealing part of long distance relationships is found in being out of the sight of your partner. In the most extreme cases, this can result in you slipping from his mind pretty quickly, and we don’t want that do we? Of course not! That’s why this article is just timely. In this article, you’ll get all the relationship advice you need to put some spark to your long distance relationship.
Here are some really helpful relationship advice that will make your long distance boyfriend fall helplessly in love with you even from miles away. Hopefully, you’ll get the hang of this and pitch your relationship among some of the best healthy relationships out there.
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Primp yourself up before his departure.
Saying farewell to your lover can be heartbreaking to say the least, but you don’t need to look unkempt and haggard because he’s going miles away from you. To make him feel like staying back instead of leaving, do something about your looks; get a sexy new hairstyle, or go to the beauticians for a facial so your skin glows. Treat yourself to a new wardrobe, some cute new shoes, a sexy dress and a flattering blouse that you look and feel awesome in. Look good for him, even at the airport, as you bid him farewell, let him know exactly who he is leaving behind. Your boyfriend will surely experience a heightened interest in you like never before with your new look and all.
Curb the desire to call him every single day.
Yes, the phone is all that you have that connects you both now and it’s normal to feel propelled to always stay in touch with him. However, you’ll be overdoing things if you call or text him every single minute! Trust me, boys sometimes want their space. So, instead of wanting you more he’ll only get irritated with your constant calls. So, draw back a little bit (it’s all for your good). It’s okay to let his call go to voice-mail once in awhile or delay replying his text. When you wait for a few hours before calling him you’ll get better results. I’m sure he’ll be so excited to hear your voice, why? Because he has really missed you!
Let him know you are having fun.
Do you want to show your heartthrob that he is missing out on a lot? Go out shopping with your girlfriends, go clubbing, to the movies, do something adventurous while your boyfriend is away and be sure to take selfies! Share these pictures with him later, giving him a subtle hint that you are having fun on your own and not moping around. That will get him on his toes if he really loves you. Do that often and your man might just take the next available flight back to you because he wants you so badly.
In today’s world of modern technology, there’s virtually nothing you can’t do on the Internet. This is to your advantage, so make full use of all the communication options that enables you talk to your significant other every single day. To this end, social media platforms like Snapchat and Facebook have proven to be very rewarding. All you need to do is fix a date to talk to each other on any of these platforms, and don’t forget to primp up yourself so you look gorgeous since he’s going to see you!
Don’t make use of jealousy.
If you want to have a healthy relationship with your man, even if it’s a long distanced one, it isn’t advisable to make use of jealousy in order to make your man miss or want you more.
It’s safe to let him know you’re having a good time while he’s away from you, but don’t rub anything in his face to make him jealous. This won’t make your long distance boyfriend want you, he’ll only feel insecure in his relationship with you, and that could be the beginning of the end of your relationship, long distance or otherwise.
I hope this relationship advice have been exciting? Experiment with them and you’ll definitely pitch your relationship as one of the healthy relationships your peers will look to emulate.